One of the traits that distinguishes the Islamic religion is its call for reform. The Islamic call for reform is based on reforming what needs to be reformed and securing what needs to be secured. These traits are shown greatly in the rules of Islam that are relevant to family in Islam. Allah commanded us to build a strong family and to work to keeping its strength. Upholding the ties of kinship makes the families more and more connected and united. Islam guides us to all types of success and anything that will make our life better. Also, it warns us that sometimes seeking a specific achievement may lead to ignoring precious values. Allah said in Surah Al-Nisa, Ayah 1 ”And fear Allah, through whom you ask one another, and the wombs.” (وَاتَّقُوا اللَّهَ الَّذِي تَسَاءَلُونَ بِهِ وَالْأَرْحَامَ), He gave us a crystal clear command on maintaining family kinship ties. It is true when it is said that your family is everything, your family is your first line defense, if it falls, many things may fall too. The prophet Muhammed, (ﷺ), said “Allah created all the creatures and when He finished the task of His creation, Ar-Rahm (ties of relationship) said: ‘(O Allah) at this place I seek refuge with You against severing my ties.’ Allah said: ‘That I treat with kindness those who treat you with kindness and sever ties with those who sever ties with you.’ It said: ‘I am satisfied.’ Allah said: ‘Then this is yours”. Then Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) said, “Recite this Ayah if you like: ‘Would you then, if you were given the authority, do mischief in the land, and sever your ties of kinship? Such are they whom Allah has cursed, so that He has made them deaf and blinded their sight”. 

Who is included in kinship?

           They are The fathers, the mothers, the grandparents, children and their children, brothers, sisters and their children, paternal uncles, paternal aunts and their children, maternal uncles, maternal aunts, and their children. Bahz ibn Hakim’s grandfather said, “I asked, ‘Messenger of Allah, to whom should I be dutiful?’ ‘Your mother,’ he replied. I asked, ‘Then whom?’ ‘Your mother,’ he replied. I asked, ‘Then whom?’ ‘Your mother,’ he replied. I asked, ‘Then to whom should I be dutiful?’ ‘Your father,’ he replied, ‘and then the next closest relative and then the next.”

Reward of maintaining kinship ties

         Maintaining kinship ties has various rewards and amazing benefits. It is a sign of faith, as the prophet Muhammed, (ﷺ), said “He who believes in Allah and the Last Day, let him maintain good the ties of blood relationship.” The prophet Muhammed, (ﷺ), defines how the believing in Allah and the day of judgment should be, it comes with the maintaining kinship ties. It is also a reason that Allah will have mercy upon the person who commits himself to this duty, The Prophet (ﷺ) said, “The word ‘Ar-Rahm (womb) derives its name from Ar-Rahman (i.e., one of the Names of Allah) and Allah said: ‘I will keep good relation with the one who will keep good relation with you, (womb i.e. Kith and Kin) and sever the relation with him who will sever the relation with you, (womb, i.e. Kith and Kin). A person might wonder how Allah will keep a good relation with him? This good relation can be described as the mercy of Allah, the providence from Allah, the blessing from Allah, and facilitating of the affairs. If you are asking about an easy deed to do that can lead you to Jannah, it should be maintaining kinship ties. Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) said, “The people of Jannah will be of three kinds: A just successful ruler, a man who shows mercy to his relatives, and a pious believer who has a large family and refrains from begging.” Allah described Jannah and the people of Jannah in many Surahs and Ayahs ”Indeed, those who have believed and done righteous deeds will have gardens beneath which rivers flow. That is the great attainment.”

ways of how to maintain kinship ties

– Expressing love and respect to everyone

– Honoring your parents

– Spending good times with the family

– Supporting who needs help

– Visiting each other and making phone calls with the family

– Exchanging gifts

– Sharing good occasions and even the sad ones
– Encouraging each other to worship Allah in the best way

– Spread peace and responding to the greetings

Visiting the sick

One Thought to “Maintaining Kinship Ties”

  1. I?¦ve read a few excellent stuff here. Definitely value bookmarking for revisiting. I surprise how so much attempt you put to create this kind of wonderful informative website.

Leave a Comment